What will you remember ten years from now when you’re asked on a day date but you have a client scheduled: The date or the client appointment? Go on the date and have fun! You’ll remember that fun day of skiing, hiking, or swimming but I guarantee you will not have a special memory of your (average or daily) work appointment in years to come. Go on your date.
So you met someone yesterday, and BaBamm! Where did he/she come from…out of nowhere? You got their number, so now what? Wait for the #3dayer? You know the three day wait before you text or call rule, so that you look like you have a life and are really busy and so you feel importantly perfect. Well guess what? He/She has a life too, so get over yourself, and plan a time that you can meet before they move on because you’re looking like a playa. Any person with their
How can you tell if he really likes you? You’ll just know. And if you keep questioning the situation, then he doesn’t.
To Ghost or not to Ghost, this is the question. Remember, all is fair in Love & War, but also remember that we are dealing with peoples emotions and feelings, and don’t forget how it feels to be hurt in a dating relationship. Ghosting is OK if you’ve had one date, and just want to leave it at that single date. You owe the other person nothing, so long as the time spent together was okay, so-so, nothing dramatic. If you’ve been seeing each other longer than 2-3 dates, let
All women want the nice, good guy. And I say all women, because who wants to be treated like crap by the bad guy? Respectfully, no one in their right mind. Instinctually, women are attracted to the protector, the guy that will physically, and hopefully, be able to protect the female and the family, and not coward the other way leaving the family to take on it’s attacker in the jungle. I have my personal opinion about the guy that comes in strong beating his chest like the amazon man….that’s a
Grab your sweetie pie by the waste and do an unexpected twirl around the kitchen while you’re cooking together and listening to this innocently, romantic song by Charlie Puth & Meghan Trainor! What a great way to attract your partners attention and forget about life’s pressures, or whatever has delayed our intimacy in our relationships. Go ahead, put on the vinyl, and feel the magic!
When it comes to communicating, women have a more emotional approach to communicating than men. On the other hand, men have a much more logical communication approach than women. So if women can communicate in a logical way to men, this should help him understand what you need on an emotional level, and that’s a win-win! And men, ya gotta understand how this works for many women, too. Pulling out the crazy card doesn’t work anymore. Communication can lead to foreplay, which leads to intimacy on a deeper level.
Nope, you never have too many vibrators. Says who? Whoever wants to! What ladies and gentlemen do need to watch is the ratio of toy only time with partner only time, or toy with partner time. Why? When using a vibrator, or such, and driven by your own touch, this is easily navigated for great pleasure. This is great, except ya gotta be careful not to get so utterly use to this because it can worsen your chances of pleasure with your partner. Yes, this is a thing (topic). Go for the
Ever wonder why you keep thinking about your ex all the time…those fond memories? Our common sense protective instincts that usually protect and serve us in a physical trauma aren’t used when your heart is broken… When your heart is broken your thoughts go down a different path, heart ache causes such dramatic emotional pain, and even when we are given a very logical reason why that person broke up with us (damn it!) we make up mysteries and other theories when there are none. We cannot trust what
Ladies: A man truly in love will let almost nothing stop him from being with you. You will never have to guess if someone is into you. If you do, it’s either because it’s too early to tell or because he just plain isn’t. Don’t keep being so available…live your life. Men: You can control the zipper, too. She’s not responsive enough? Hey, it’s too early, or she just may not be feeling it.…meaning you. Either way, don’t sell your self short and certainly don’t play games. Guaranteed , that you’ll
