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This was just a quick meet and greet at a steak house bar, and he casually says “Yeah, I still like this girl I was dating and broke it off with her. Now I realize I miss her and she won’t talk to me anymore.” And I’m thinking, this is not turning into another therapy session over a $20 skinny spicy! Why do people treat first dates or meetings like emotional unloading zones?!? Keep the drama in the drafts please!
Ladies, the more a man likes you the slower he’ll move forward. Why? He moves forward with a relationship more carefully because he has something important to lose….you! This slower progression probably means that he’s very interested in you in a serious way. Be patient and enjoy.
Ladies, before you’ve met in person, and if he’s treating you like the stranger that you are, there should be no kissy face emoji, love texting, texting how beautiful that you are, etc. There should be no flirtation. If he is, then he’s a fake. There should be no show or illusion of intimacy You’ve not met yet and there is no chemistry, no concrete commonality, or true attraction. He should be polite and want to meet with you, be in the moment, and experience the person that you are.
This is in a first date courting situation: A high value man who has empathy will understand that after a date, IF the woman likes him, that she’ll be worried that he doesn’t like her if she doesn’t hear from him. The high value man won’t want the woman to worry. Also, a high value man will text first if he’s a gentleman and was raised correctly. Is he a high value man?
Okay, so when you first meet someone you’re considering romantically…especially if you haven’t met in person: DON’T spend time texting to try and get to know them. DO text to plan a time to meet. That’s it, done… until you meet. DON’T have a dinner date first, do a coffee shop, an ice cream walking around (watching how good they can use that tongue), or a happy hour. If you feel like you want to get to know them a little more before you meet, then speak on the phone.
So…you went through another relationship, ugh. #breakup No matter who called this shot, this is a good thing because now you can have the opportunity to find the right person to include in your life. You were probably matched incorrectly, meaning that you weren’t a match from the beginning. This is why we date, to get to know someone’s values and our intimacy stages with them. If there isn’t an intimate bonding in different ways, then there won’t be a happy, healthy relationship. While dating, you need to spend as
Ladies, don’t worry about your date slowing down on his “jive” after awhile, and here’s why! Men typically talk more during the period of the first few dates than ever. They are telling you all about themselves, kind of like discussing their resume of “who they are by sharing what they think, feel, and value. Once a man gets the job (you) and he is exclusive, there’s no longer any reason to keep talking.” Talking has served it’s purpose. Now that they know each other….and this is after a few
So, you’ve been dating a little while and now you’re wondering what your dates’ intentions are in regards to your dating thing. I’m calling this a thing because we don’t know what this dating situation is yet. I always say that honesty is the best policy, and probably the best thing to do is go ahead and ask: “Hey ???, we’ve been going out awhile now, and I’ve been having a nice time hanging out with you (and everything). I was just wondering how you feel about ‘us’ so far
Porn has nothing to do with (adult) sex ed, it’s fiction…..not to be confused with the sexual reality with a partner. Something to remember in our everyday sexual life, but there nothing wrong with a little fiction.
