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This was just a quick meet and greet at a steak house bar, and he casually says “Yeah, I still like this girl I was dating and broke it off with her. Now I realize I miss her and she won’t talk to me anymore.” And I’m thinking, this is not turning into another therapy session over a $20 skinny spicy! Why do people treat first dates or meetings like emotional unloading zones?!? Keep the drama in the drafts please!
Ladies, the more a man likes you the slower he’ll move forward. Why? He moves forward with a relationship more carefully because he has something important to lose….you! This slower progression probably means that he’s very interested in you in a serious way. Be patient and enjoy.
Ladies, stay in your feminine….this shows that you’re very strong. A woman who is only in her masculine is probably very weak, and insecure, putting up barriers, stating that she doesn’t need a man. Of course she needs a man. A man likes a feminine woman. He will like you!
Did you know?…. that women in their 40’s and 50’s have more, and easier, orgasms than in their earlier years. Yep. So now I’m wondering why so many men ruin a relationship or marriage to be with a younger woman, and then hit the button and repeat. They must not have the ability to connect intimately on all four levels of intimacy. Regardless, ladies enjoy!!! And guys, hang on to your honey, it’s only getting better.
Ladies, don’t worry about your date slowing down on his “jive” after awhile, and here’s why! Men typically talk more during the period of the first few dates than ever. They are telling you all about themselves, kind of like discussing their resume of “who they are by sharing what they think, feel, and value. Once a man gets the job (you) and he is exclusive, there’s no longer any reason to keep talking.” Talking has served it’s purpose. Now that they know each other….and this is after a few
Ladies, After a few weeks of dating, you don’t hear from him anymore. OMG, why? Probably because he gave you some good lip service and won’t pull through with his promises. You didn’t hear from him…there’s your answer. Another reason why you shouldn’t be intimate for 2-3 months. #values Protect yourself with your boundaries.
Remember: “I miss you” doesn’t mean “I choose you”
“I cannot find a person (man or woman) that respects me! What’s wrong with people in todays world?” I hear this from both men and women, so I use the phrase “person”. The tough truth is that you attract this type of person because, most likely, you don’t respect yourself and they pick up on this. Yep, you’re with this person and anyone that respects themselves would simply walk away, not stay and wonder why…..you’re responsible for yourself. Set your criteria, (#values) don’t waiver, but your actions have to follow
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