Judy Sekinger

By Judy Sekinger October 14, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Covid Dating?

Walk the dog though the park or scroll on-line , and you may meet someone that catches your eye….ZING! It’s certainly possible to meet a few times while keeping your distance, just to see if there’s chemistry between you two. This is really all you should be doing during your first meet-up. Within 1-2 meet-ups you should discuss distancing and know…. And if there’s a connection then go ahead and begin connecting. Humans are made for intimacy and partnerships. You got this!!

By Judy Sekinger October 13, 2020 in Arguing, Breakups, Cheating, Closure, Communication, Lifestyle, Mental Health, Responsibility, Stress No Comments

Verbal Abuse: It’s not your fault.

“Abuse comes in many forms, not all of which are physical. When someone repeatedly uses words to demean, frighten, or control someone, it’s considered verbal abuse. The trouble is, when you’re involved in a verbally abusive relationship, it can wear you down and seem normal to you.” www.healthline.com Ten signs of verbal abuse: www.joinonelove.org Know that it’s not your fault, but it’s your responsibility to seek help for yourself.

By Judy Sekinger October 10, 2020 in Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Responsibility, Uncategorized No Comments

For Every Action There’s A Reaction

This has always been a manta in my life: Action = Reaction Do the right thing, and you’ll most likely get a good result. A negative action, and you’ll probably get repercussions in one direction or another. My kids can attest to this. And Zella dog? She knows via training, that there will be a leash if she doesn’t walk with me. Got kids? Your relationship? It’s up to you….the truth always comes out later or sooner 😉

By Judy Sekinger October 2, 2020 in Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Seven Types of Orgasms

I love a good talk show while driving, and I’ll share a few fav’s sometime. I was surprised to understand that there are seven, YES 7!!!, types of orgasms for women. 🙂 WooHoo we hit the jackpot. Ever notice how some O’s are more intense than others? Well, here’s the menu: Clitorial, Nipple, G-Spot, The Anal, Urethral, A-Spot, and Vaginal. Guys, just because your gal didn’t react, #screamwithdelight, doesn’t mean she isn’t pleasured and satisfied.

By Judy Sekinger October 2, 2020 in Arguing, Breakups, Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Sex No Comments

Perfectly Perfect

New date coming up gals? A great way to feel comfortable is to dress comfortable and wear what you like. Stiletto’s? Hell yeah if you can walk the walk, but don’t wear them on a first date if you’ll be hunched over with sore feet in the first hour. Be yourself, dress like yourself, and enjoy yourself. You’ll be perfectly perfect. And if the spark isn’t there, that’s okay….there’s nothing you can do to create true chemistry. On to the next date….for both of you.

By Judy Sekinger October 2, 2020 in Communication, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Responsibility, Stress, Uncategorized No Comments

Radio Flyer

Years ago, when my babies were babies, I’d pull them in the red wagon, turn around and say, “someday you’ll be pulling me in the wagon.” <3 They were baffled because “mommy, you’re too big!” Fast forward almost 30 years later, my Millennials are smarter and faster with the same core values. And now, I can count on them for tech, travel, fitness, and financial advice. Pay now, or pay later.

By Judy Sekinger September 16, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love No Comments

Gaze Up!

Stumbled across this quaint ivy covered old house with a vivid blue sky, and what you can’t see is an alley below full of garbage cans and cinder filled brick pavers with overgrown grass and weeds. Looking down was not so beautiful, but gazing up was extraordinary. Look down or gaze up!?!

By Judy Sekinger September 13, 2020 in Stress No Comments

Stress Free

Stressed??? Make your best decisions, sit back, do your best and stay motivated. “It” will go the right direction even if the direction isn’t what you expected. There’s a reason for this, unknown at the time. Hang on for the ride and you’ll see your life change and evolve for the better…just you wait and see! The longer you hang on to the old, the longer until you’ll see the new. If your situation is just too much to handle on your own, seek professional help.

By Judy Sekinger September 8, 2020 in Communication, Lifestyle, Love, Responsibility, Uncategorized No Comments

Your Actions Save Lives

Only YOU can prevent wild fires! Visiting San Diego for a few days, and of course I’m excited to be outside on my laptop, which unfortunately is collecting ash from the most recent fire. Eight people lost lives at this moment, animals with nowhere to go, people fleeing their homes. We are all responsible for our actions. Prevent Forest Fires.

By Judy Sekinger August 25, 2020 in Cheating No Comments

Cheater Cheater

For all those married men out there that are thinking about cheating on your wife, ya better think twice bud. What I, and my dear friend Stacy in Cali have seen, that at a later age, let’s use 48+, women are much happier single than men. Dude, pull up your bootstraps, walk in the front door, say honey I’m home, kiss her on the lips, and enjoy what you have. The grass is not greener on the other side and I can almost guarantee you that you’ll be unhappy later

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